Break up Tips for the gals

So, you've been through a bad break-up, huh? Well, consider yourself one of many. And now, you want to get back into the dating game without all of the post break-up drama? Well, sit back, read this article, and take comfort in knowing that you are not alone.

1. Go into this new relationship cautiously and smartly. Take things very slowly, and don't let this new guy toy with you. Learn about all of guys' tricks. Don't be so gullible and believe him if he tells you he loves you- especially if it's very soon in the relationship that he tells you that he does. Do not, not, NOT let him take advantage of you. You're smarter than that, girl, and you know what signs to look for when it comes to being used and taken advantage of. Protect yourself, and don't be too trusting.

2. Don't go too fast. This is pretty much like number one. Don't make out with this boy the first time you guys hang out with each other. Wait until the time feels right; you will know. What's the fun of a relationship if you do everything right away? Then, there's nothing left to look forward too and get butterflies over, you know? Don't rush into things, and wait a while before sucking face-even if it kills you.

3. Do not believe the "I love you". That is the biggest tactic a boy uses on girls that makes girls feel weak in the knees and vulnerable. In some cases, that isn't true. Sometimes, you will actually find a good guy out there, who really means it when he says he loves you. But on most accounts, it's all part of the boys game. You can ask around if you don't believe me. And whatever happens, don't tell him you love him back UNLESS YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN THAT YOU DO! You've probably been there and done that before with the ex, remember? Girls don't want to have to go through that again.

4. Don't fall too hard again. Don't let this guy make you fall for him like you did for your ex-boyfriend. Know better and have some strength and self respect. Learn from the past. You can always take some good out of the bad.

5. Don't take compliments too personally. Boys love to offer girls compliments. It automatically gives them a one-way ticket to her heart. Girls love compliments, and they aren't a bad thing, but they can be annoying and they can be bad if they are over-used. Don't take them all to heart.

6. Don't let nerves take over you. Don't let this boy make you nervous! But if he does, try not to let it show that he makes you weak in the knees. I know that boys do that to girls because girls're only human, but they don't need to have the satisfaction of knowing that. If you can, try to make HIM sweat. Make that boy whipped. Whip him like Whipped Cream!

Tips

• Stay strong and stay true to yourself at all times.
• Don't let yourself get taken advantage of.
• Try not to turn all mushy and soft if you can help it, unless that's really what you want.
• Don't let your new relationship turn into a text message or an online relationship. Make sure this boy calls you and that you guys hang out! You deserve at least that much.

Warnings

• Don't be to dominant and push him away. That could end up in bad results, especially if you really like this boy.